Unpopular Opinion: Paper Plates Have No Place at Small Dinner Parties

4 Reasons Paper Plates Just Ain’t It

Let me just say it: if you’ve invited me over for a small dinner party and I’m eating off a paper plate… I’m judging you. Respectfully, of course. 🙂

Don’t get me wrong—there’s a time and place for disposable dinnerware. Big backyard BBQs? Absolutely. Children’s birthday parties? Please, by all means. And what your family eats on every night? That’s your business. But an intimate dinner party with your closest friends?!?! That's a big NO NO.

Because when it comes to hosting well, the details matter.

Here’s why paper plates simply don’t cut it when you’re hosting a small gathering:

1. Small Doesn’t = Casual

There’s a common misconception that “small” means “low effort.” But if anything, a smaller guest list deserves more intention, not less. After all, you’re not feeding a crowd—you’re curating an experience.

Serving your meal on paper plates—even fancy ones—sends a signal that convenience took priority over care. It’s not about being fancy for fancy’s sake; it’s about showing your guests that their presence matters enough for you to break out the real dishes.

Trust me, even mismatched plates from your cabinet carry more charm and personality than anything disposable. It’s not about perfection. It’s about presence.

2. The Aesthetic Matters

As hosts, our table is our canvas. Whether you’re working with a farmhouse table, a kitchen breakfast bar, or a card table, the way you set it says something.

Real plates ground the experience—they add weight, texture, and visual depth. They signal that this moment, this meal, this gathering, is worth dressing up for.

And if you’re capturing content for the ’gram or just creating a vibe for your people, trust: your table setting sets the tone.

3. The Environment Deserves Better

We can’t ignore the impact of single-use products. Paper plates—especially the coated, decorative kind—often can’t be recycled or composted.

Choosing reusable dinnerware is one of the simplest ways to make your gatherings more sustainable. And with so many chic, affordable, and even vintage options available now, there’s really no excuse.

4. It’s About Intentionality

At the end of the day, hosting is an act of love. It’s an invitation into your space, your energy, your world.

The smallest choices—like which plates you set out—contribute to the story your guests will remember. Real plates say: I took time to create this moment for you. They say: you’re worth the extra load in the dishwasher.

It’s not about impressing anyone. It’s about honoring the connection.

So save the paper plates for the picnic.

Your dinner table—and your guests—deserve something a little more special.

And if you’re thinking, “But I don’t have a full set of dinnerware,” don’t worry—I’ve got you. I’ve curated a collection of dinnerware across a range of styles and price points—from affordable basics to elevated statement pieces. Whether you’re into classic neutrals, earthy ceramics, or something with a little edge, there’s something in there for every kind of host (and every kind of table).

Trust me, investing in real dinnerware is worth it. You only need as many plates as your kitchen or dining table can comfortably seat—plus two extra, because accidents happen

Shop my affordable dinnerware recommendations here.

Hosting well doesn’t have to be expensive—it just has to be intentional.